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anthonymichaelrojas:

1. Do not let more than 1 day go by without contacting her
2. Be on time
3. Open her car door
4. Help her put her coat on
5. Hold the door for her to enter/leave an establishment first
6. Pull her chair out for her in the restaurant
7. Order for her (Note – this does not mean tell her what she’s going to have for dinner. Have a conversation about what she wants and then when the waiter comes, order for her.)
8. At the end of your date, don’t drive off until she’s safely inside

This is sexist. How dare any guy do these things.

I thought it was just being polite.  You feminist girls can go on putting on your own jackets and pulling out your own chairs.  I prefer to not.  I won’t let chivalry die.

Oh and P.S.  It’s not like I say to Pete, “Oh hey, you better open that door for me ever single time, douchebag”.  He does it on his own because he’s polite and was raised well.

And P.P.S.  Pete, please don’t order for me (#7).  It’s kind of weird.

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   I thought it was just being polite. You feminist girls can go on putting on your own jackets and pulling out your own...

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    7.5 - Pay for dinner

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    it’s really not that hard to understand us girls :P

12. fezmonkey reblogged this from anthonymichaelrojas and added:

    but thought I’d add my two cents. #7 is excessive, #1 depends on th level of communication

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    I actually agree with all of this

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    Never. EVER. order for me. We may have a had a convo about what I want, but I change my mind at the VERY last second and...

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    Sa lahat ng ka-OA-han! Let’s dissect it, shall we?...What 1 day? Before or after?

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    I agree with you Jamiee. I would feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable if someone did this stuff on a first date. Maybe some of...

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    maybe i’m just weird then, everyone seems to be pretty cool with this list, but most of these things would just make me...

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    thats sad that you think its unesscary to order for someone. thats what you call polite, the server asks what you are...

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    I’d rather not number 7 thanks, other than that yeah cool, especially eight.

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    I do most of these.

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    I think thats sweet - although with no.7 is not completely neccasary but I’d be okay with it. Alternatively you could...

51. jmuffin reblogged this from mastodonstorm and added:

    bolded part is such a fucking rude thing to say. Who raised you? also, this list is all very polite and quaint, but...

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    if anyone wants to read the mess, they can click thru. All in all,...agree people...

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    personally i think this is sexist. wtf guys are not our slaves. this is nice and all, but noo.

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    ugh. If you order for me, I will punch you in the face.

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    JESUS. Thank you. Not that I can’t manage on my own…but you know, sometimes it’s just nice to feel taken care of....

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    i have never done any of these things but still manage to get laid…i must be special

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    adamiss:jgh:ohfortheloveofdog:placeholdertext:hotpotatohot:anthonymichaelrojas:...Sorry, I...

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    inside CZ: Yes, please. :)

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    Do not let more than 1 day go by without contacting her Be on time Open her car door Help her put her coat on Hold the...

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     so this is floating around everyone’s tumblr and i think i’m the only chick who has zero complaints with this list. i...

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     note was becoming...crazy overly-indented clusterfuck. Text that looks like this is...

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     Ahaha! Also, communicating (the first one) in itself doesn’t bother me, but the fact that it was listed as a rule does....

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     Random Musings Score!

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     I completely agree with airport’s answers. 4 and 7 are an absolute no. Number 1 doesn’t matter nearly as much as this...

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     Good Lord…the solution to this seems fairly simple. Just fucking communicate like normal humans. Guys, if you have been...

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     BWAHAHAHAHAHA. Also, taking a look at the huge number of notes on this … am I the only one who has begun to suspect that...

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     Upon re-reading these handy tips, I realize it’s good advice re: How To Take Care Of The Toddler You’re Babysitting.

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     Next time I’m on a date, I’ll open the car door, order for him, help him put his coat on, and pull out his chair… all...

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     dog: How To Treat A Woman On A Date: The Basics HA!

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     I know people are throwing a fit about this, but… I really wouldn’t mind a date doing any of these for me. I can...

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     no duh sure no duh okay NO do

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     multicultural feminism from...global perspective...rant...

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     To add to Mo’s point, when I majored in gender studies in college,...was not to talk about...

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     JGH, you should know by now that any push-back against antiquated gender norms is perceived as murderous rage.

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     You are awesome. And so right. I would...could get someone

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     OK, perhaps “seething” was an overstatement! But yeah, I’d...guy who tried to “put my

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     Really? You’d be seething with rage if...man you were dating called you or texted you or...

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     ridiculously mad. 2)...don’t need “the whole world...know”...

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     I used to be “I can do things myself asshole” too. Then I realized, guys are just trying to be nice not patronizing....

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     Sometimes you people get ridiculously mad for no reason. Back when I was an idealistic 20 year old feminist, I made a...

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     Here’s my one rule; because even when things don’t work out, it means they weren’t supposed to: Be Yourself (queue this...

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     I would be seething with rage if the guy did any of the above, besides being on time. Treat me like a human being, not a...

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     Order for her!? Help me put my coat on!?

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     Bolded words are mine. Where’s the part on the list where you’re respectful and not patronizing? Treat her for who she...

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     Do people still live by this load of shit? I don’t know about the rest of the world after reading that list, but I’m all...

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     agree. also when talking, look at her, make eye contact do...chest. ever. (chested or

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     order for her? should i brush her teeth for her and do her hair too?

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     Haha. I’m sorry guys, I’m a traditional kind of girl and my boy does this all the time- not just on dates. Chivalry is...

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     think it’s pretty damn rude...a gal, unless you’re in another country, and she doesn’t...

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     you been all these years? :o

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     AGREE AGREE AGREE! Don’t do that, guys. It makes us feel stupid. 1 and 2 are good. 3, 4, and 6 I could do without. 5 is...

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     If only this was realistic.

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     Why do you have to be...treat a woman like this? Shouldn’t you always treat a woman like...

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     I’m with you. I can order my own meal…

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     i agree with all of these except for #7. i am perfectly capable of ordering my own meal thank you very much. gentlemen...

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     However, others don’t share our appreciation of chivalry.

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     BBG believes wholeheartedly in basic points of etiquette, especially

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     This list will pretty much ASSURE you will get a second date.

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     And order a bunch of appetizers. Mmm. MMM!

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     The fact that this...how people think a ‘typical relationship’ should look is why

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     here you go guys, ill give you the bare basics. fuck treating women like its medieval times. this

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     Um. I don’t need any of this shit. It’s a nice thought or whatever, but as long as you don’t get mad at me for my...

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     Oh my dod. Heads would roll, bitches. Change that shiz to read, “Let her order first, period. And whatever you do, don’t...

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     I don’t care about having my chair pulled out for me. There should be another basic rule that says to be nice to other...

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     I think if the guy was sincere about this and not just trying to get me in bed, It’d be the greatest thing in the world....

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     yeah ordering for me pretty much guarantees that you won’t get a second date, and there’s a distinct possibility that...

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     guy ever treated me like this, I’d kick his ass! I’d be so insulted.

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     Cue HOLY EFFING SHIT I HAVE TO DATE AGAIN freakout.

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     BOYS: Rule #1 is Rule #1

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     Yeah no, no ordering for this girl. I can do it on my own.

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     IF A GUY ORDERED FOR ME I’D BE PISSED. DON’T DO THAT. NOT THAT I EVEN GO ON DATES.

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     It’s amazing how much of this would be considered creepy nowadays. :/

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     One thing I don’t understand is why guys place the importance on “The Date”. Why not do this all the time? I think men...

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     The only thing I wouldn’t want a guy to do is order for me. It would make me think that the guy thought of me as...

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     oh i hate pretty much everything on this list. like what, am i PATHETIC? i hate when people order for me, EURGH, I HAVE...

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     CHIVALRY AND MANNERS ARE ADMIRABLE QUALITIES THAT ALL WOMEN APPRECIATE.

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     I disagree with number 7. I can...myself but everything else seems good.

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     Gah. I feel the need to voice how much I disapprove of people opening doors for me and helping with coats etc etc etc....

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     well isn’t that nice!...this really happen? lol.

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